I’ve Heard It All…. AND MORE! I could keep adding and adding, but I think you get the picture.
It is NOT OK to say these things to someone who does not have a child. It is NOT OK to ask these questions. It doesn’t matter if someone you know just got married, or had been trying for 10 years like us. YOU JUST DON’T SAY THESE THINGS.
I have been in the most uncomfortable situations with people who assumed we didn’t want to have kids….. because we had been married for so long already! How could we NOT want to have kids? NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS IF WE WANTED KIDS OR NOT!